Relationship Resources



Relationship Resources Ten Lessons to Transform Your Marriage
John M Gottman, PhD and Julie  Schwartz Gottman, PhD

Couples Retreat Wired for Love: How Understanding Your Partner's Brain and Attachment Style Can Help You Defuse Conflict and Build a Secure Relationship
Stan Tatkin, PsyD

marriage counseling Take Back your Marriage
William J. Doherty, PhD

marriage support Hold Me Tight:  Seven Conversations for a Lifetime of Love 
Dr. Susan Johnson

family therapy The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work
John M. Gottman, PhD.

marriage counseling The Relationship Cure
John M. Gottman and Joan DeClaire

family counseling The Truth About Love
Pat Love, EdD.

couples retreat A General Theory of Love 
A Thomas Lewis, MD; Fari Amini, MD; Richard Lannon, MD

marriage enrichment The New Rules of Marriage
Terrance Real

relationship enrichment Rekindling Desire: A Step –by-Step Program to Help Low-Sex and No-Sex Marriages
Barry and Emily McCarthy

relationship conflict The High Conflict Couple 
Alan E. Fruzzetti, PhD

relationship advice The Couple’s Tao Te Ching:  Ancient Advice for Modern Lovers
William Martin

Articles on Love Languages

pdf Speak Your Mate’s Language of Love
by Gary Chapman


Articles on Couple’s Dialogue

pdf The Couple’s Dialogue (the long version)

pdf Some Basic Language of Dialogue (short version)

pdf The Turtle and the Hailstorm

pdf Core Differences in Ways of Maintaining Emotional Stability (Legitimately Different Ways of Navigating Life)
by Brent Atkinson

pdf Ten Characteristics of a Conscious Marriage
from pg 91-93 in "Getting the Love You Want"
by Harville Hendrix, PhD

Are You with the Right Mate?
Psychology Today February 2012


Websites to Explore

Are you a Tiger or a Turtle when it comes to love?
Answers to your Big Questions about Love
Imago Dialogue 101